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Message from the President: Terumah

Shalom from Israel!
 
This Shabbat we read Parshat Terumah.  We start learning about building the Mishkan, the temporary Tabernacle that the Israelites carried through the desert during their trek to the Promised Land. Most of the remainder of the Book of Exodus is spent recounting all of the minutiae involved in its construction, its dimensions, its materials. But … if it’s a temporary structure, why is so much importance given to it?
 
Rabbi Sacks, among many, suggests an answer. He compares the Israelites before the building of the Mishkan, to the nation after. The nation before constantly complained — about water, about food, about attacks, about everything. Even when they would benefit from what was given to them, they complained! But once they were given a task, a chance to be an active participant in their future, the complaining stopped.  
 
The building of the Mishkan allowed the people to come together and build something together, to honor G-d and to make themselves worthy at the same time. (Here is a link to Rabbi Sacks’ full Dvar Torah, which includes a great comparison to de Tocqueville’s analysis of state and society, for anyone who is interested.)
 
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We also had our share of building and fixing our Shul these past two weeks. Dealing with all of the repairs has been time consuming and expensive, but we expect all to be fixed in the next few weeks. We will reassess the budget in light of the monies needed for building repairs and contingencies, as well as the need for increased security. I should have more information in a couple of weeks about that. 
 
In the meantime, I wish you a safe and peaceful Shabbat.
 
Steve Inker

Message from the President: Mishpatim

This week’s Parsha, Mishpatim, seems out of place. Last week we finished retelling the events at Mount Sinai and the giving of the Ten Commandments … and now we are given laws about Jewish servants, caring for widows, how to treat thieves and other assorted everyday interactions. At the end of the Parsha, we get back to Sinai and the acceptance by the Jewish people of the Torah, naasseh v’nishma – we will do as we will hear. 
 
Why the juxtaposition? Rabbi Frand, in one of his divrei torah on ethics, explains that the Torah can only exist with Derech Eretz, and likewise Derech Eretz requires Torah. He goes on to contrast the Jewish people with other nations. Is there another so concerned with lashon harah? With helping your enemy before your friend? He posits that we cannot properly accept the Torah until we become good people. Derech Eretz precedes Torah and stems from it as well. 
 
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This week, the Board continued to work on the many goals that were discussed at the last meeting. I have made a list of people for the different committees and will try to contact all before Shabbat so they can get started. The Board met with the Treasurer this week to hear about the financial situation of the Shul and to start planning for the coming year. Different ideas were raised and there was spirited debate but no decisions were made. These will be discussed and voted on in the next few weeks. We will also need to start planning for the annual dinner, which will ideally take place in the Spring.

A more pressing issue arose this week: no heat. There was a problem with pipes in the kiddush room going to the boiler. These have now been fixed, and the heat is back on, but repair work remains in the kiddush room walls. I’ll try to give an update on that next week. I want to personally thank Shternie for all of her efforts in getting the work done and arranging everything. This just points out again how much work she and the Rabbi do in the Shul, and why we really need to expedite getting people hired to assist them. 

As always, please send any comments, advice or criticisms to me at president.bnaiavraham@gmail.com or whattsapp me and I will try to respond as quickly as possible. I will, BH, be in Israel for the next two Shabbatot (writing this in Madrid waiting for my connecting flight) but I will try to send my weekly update while I’m away.

Wishing you all a safe and peaceful Shabbat Shalom,

Steve Inker

Message from the President: Yitro

The weekly Parsha always has relevant lessons for us. Sometimes we have to dig deep to find them, but in Parshat Yitro it jumped right out at me. 

While this Parsha contains the Israelites receiving the Ten Commandments, arguably the most important event in Jewish history, the Parsha is not named for this event. Rather, it is named for Moses' father-in-law, who came to recognize the power and omnipotence of G-d but who, one could argue, was not in the same league as the Ten Commandments.

So why does Yitro get top billing? Yitro came, watched Moses, gave his advice and left. What was this advice, this great contribution to Moses, and the continuity of Jewish leadership? He taught Moses to delegate. To find people to help with interpreting laws and solving problems, so that the nation could function.

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This week we had our first working Board meeting of 2022, and the theme was (you guessed it) delegation.  

Committees are being set up to tackle a number of topics, and will report prior to the March board meeting. Unfortunately, the Rabbi was not able to be present at the meeting, but I discussed all of the issues and deliberations with him shortly afterward. 
 
The topics are:
    • Security improvements in the face of increasing Antisemetic attacks.
    • Planning our events – how all the people who work on this can share ideas and communicate better.
    • Membership types and levels, keyed to different budgets and needs.
    • Staffing – relieving day-to-day tasks the Rabbi and Shternie are handling, improving shul accounting practices, and formalizing our arrangment with the Shabbos Baal Koreh, Rabbi David Shushan.
     • Elections – seeing if there are ways we can improve how they are conducted.
    • Non-halachic ritual standing committee to assist the Rabbi and congregation. 
    • Job descriptions and expectations of the shul leadership, at the recommendation of the Rabbi.
 
This is a lot to accomplish, but it begins here. Any members interested in working on one (or more) committees are welcome. You can always contact me, or any Board member or officer to get involved.   

The minutes for the previous meeting will be made available to synagogue members shortly. (The minutes from this week's meeting will be sent out after they are approved at the next Board meeting.)
 
As always, if you have any suggestions or concerns, please contact me at  president.bnaiavraham@gmail.com  (or text or WhatsApp me at 917-620-8762) and I will get back to you as soon as I can.
 
Wishing you all a safe and meaningful Shabbos,
 
Steven Inker

Rabbi Raskin's video: Yitro

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